Saturday, June 23, 2012

TO DECEIVE OR NOT TO DECEIVE



When you are a keen observant, you tend to notice things as well as the  different aspects and views of people; some are based on what you see, others are based from what you have encountered in life, like a couple of friends that I know, be it in your community, your neighborhood, or with what you have watched on movies or TV shows, what you have heard, or even what you have experienced.  

She seeks the excitement, the adventure, or the exhilaration. But some women cheat just for the joy of it. The enthusiasm of doing things behind a partner’s back, the risk, the adrenaline rush, the desire are all very compelling reasons for a woman to cheat. The cheating bit isn’t always emotional; it is in fact an out and out physical act that is engaged in for the thrill of it.



She wants more. They say that the most obvious reason for a woman to cheat is that she isn’t getting enough sex or that she isn’t happy with what you have to offer.  But I say, sometimes women only learned to cheat because of boredom, & to the lamest idea of it all, she may just want to have a companion to talk to.  I believe that COMMUNICATION  is an essential ingredient in every relationship, It may not be the lifeblood, but it certainly the most vital part; it is the heart of every relationship.  Lack of communication may result to getting involved in an adulterous relationship. It is left to the other party in the relationship to pull his socks up and fight for his woman. If you love her and want her, you have to go the extra mile and satisfy her in & out of bed.  Cheating perse, may be tantamount to a joyride; the ride may be good & fun, exciting, ecstatic, exhilarating but it can be dangerous too.

She wants to get back at you. If you have cheated on her in the past, she could cheat on you just to get back at you. Yes, women can be rather revengeful if they so wish!  So caveat! Careful careful!  

She is bored. Less or no experimentation in the bedroom can likewise be one of the reasons a woman chooses to cheat. Women seek as much variation in the bedroom as men do and if her partner cannot provide her the same, she is bound to look for it outside.

She feels neglected. This is the most common reason women give when asked why they cheated. Feeling neglected, unwanted or useless is what drives women to cheat. It is when their husbands or boyfriends ignore them that they take to finding companionship and solace in the company of others.

If you don’t want to go through the pain of being cheated, then it is up to you to ensure your woman is happy and satisfied. Give it your best shot and more and thus ensure that she has no excuse to cheat on you.